To unleash the “Inner Vixen” of any woman, you must first provide three critical prerequisites:
- a foundation of emotional trust and open mindedness; built over time through consistency of words & actions,
- the playful flirtatious seduction of her mind to arouse her desire to explore her secret sexual fantasies and to reveal her true sexual self.
- an emotionally-safe space where she can freely express and explore her sexual desires without any fear of judgement or repercussions to her personal life, her professional career or her family…
We all lead three distinct lives; a public life, a private life and a secret sexual life. I hope you find my writings about Sensual Domination insightful, informative and useful in your journey of exploration of your secret sexual life.
~DominantSoul
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Of all Elvgren’s pictures she is by far the best. You have chosen well.
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I was inspired by a lover of pinup art…
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Reblogged this on Erotica Almanac.
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So true 🙂
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I agree with those three prerequisites. Without a safe place to open up in, the vixen remains inside. So hard to take that step and determine if the person truly wants to meet her and cherish her or is just a game to be played. I’m sure it’s just as hard for men.
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I have just discovered your blog and may be here for some time learning! I am curious and inexperienced in this realm of sexuality and liberation. I’m trying to read as much as I can and to remain safe. I haven’t ventured any further than that.
Could you recommend 5 very important articles of yours I should read to give a solid platform to jump from? I understand you may be a busy man, I appreciate any time given to direct me. I shall follow your blog. Thank you.
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Here are four about safety;
Homework for novice subs
https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/personal-safety/homework-for-subs/
Doms vs. Female Abusers : Spotting Predators
https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/personal-safety/spotting-predators/
Five Questions Every Dom Should Ask a Sub
https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/personal-safety/five-questions-every-dom-should-ask-a-submissive/
Submissive Rights: Coping With The Pressure To Submit As A Novice Submissive
https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/personal-safety/submissive-rights-the-pressure-to-submit-for-novice-subs/
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Thank you. I have read them all and you have given me so many things to take away and digest. Questions I would never have thought of. I am also not a member of fetlife, should I be? Perhaps I should read some more first. It’s my 1st day on your blog and my gut is telling me to immerse myself in your knowledge and to read your readers contributions also. Thank you again for directing me to those articles.
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FetLife has many group discussions run by females for females that could a valuable source of experienced female advice.
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But be prepared. FetLife is also full of male predators seeking fresh meat to exploit also
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Ok thank you, noted and understood.
Maybe it’s too soon. I’ll read some more first and then decide. Gracious for your help.
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