Cum-on-Command: Achieving the Ultimate Mental Arousal & Orgasm Control

The previous discussion about the Female Mindgasms (I.E. Mental orgasms without any physical stimulation) seriously captured my imagination “8 Distinct Female Orgasms: How Do You Experience Climax?” (https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/ds-sexuality/8-distinct-female-orgasms/).

The ability of some submissives to experience powerful orgasms as a result of vivid sexual dreams, phone sex, voice command. cybersex, IM or text message without any physical stimulation truly captured my imagination intellectually and sexually. When the discussion began, I have to admit that I was initially skeptical but when several women told of their varying experiences, I had to believe this could be another little known ability of the female mind and body – just like female squirting was thought to be a myth just a few years ago.

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My immediate thought is what amazing and exceptional sexual beings these women must be. My second thought is, Is this a very special physical/mental ability or is there a process by which other submissives could be trained to achieve this ability in the same way?

Then I came across this interesting article on NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Orgasm Training and a discussion group on Erotic Hypnosis which you may find thought provoking. This article gave me an initial framework for mental conditioning I could apply along with my knowledge of physical sexual response.

My ultimate goal as a Dom is to develop a consistent training methodology to mentally condition and train a submissive to be able to “Cum-on-Command” in public. How deliciously naughty it would be to have my one submissive to secretly have orgasms on my verbal command surrounded by others in public while still having to also maintain her exterior composure… What beautifully naughty private moment to share!

I Need Your Help:

  1. Mindgasm: I am looking for a series of women who have experienced Mindgasms who I can interview to understand how they achieve this mental/physical ability.
  2. Cum-on-Command: I am looking for woman who have been trained to “Cum-on-Command”. I would love to hear about your training process and evolution as a sub to achieve this ability.

Please post a response here in a public post or send me a private email.

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~DominantSoul

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13 comments on “Cum-on-Command: Achieving the Ultimate Mental Arousal & Orgasm Control”

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  2. I look forward to you adding to this once you interview multiple woman who are experiencing these types of orgasms. I’m intrigued…

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  4. I am one of those lucky women, whose Sir has trained me to cum on command. The process began almost from our very first telephone conversation (well all right phone sex if you must be technical). I was not allowed to cum without His permission. About ten days or two weeks later, I thought I might be in big trouble when I realized that I had not cum even once without His permission since then.

    And I love my happy O’s as I call them…of course He corrects me…His happy O’s. I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember and while generally speaking I cannot have more than one clitoral orgasm without a break, I can have dozens and hundreds of g-spot and deep penetration ones during sex. But I too had always scoffed at the idea of a mind-gasm. Until He trained me for them. Mind you…He is also my best friend and I trust Him…with my breath (hint for a follow up on the joys of breath play), happy O’s and to make the tough real life decisions when I need Him to. Our friendship has been tested in the fires of hell from very early on, so this is not something I take lightly…even though I feel like I handed it over to Him on a platinum platter.

    Like I said, from the very beginning the process began with telling when I was about to cum and being made to ask permission. Eventually it became Him knowing when I was close and telling me to cum for Him rather than me asking permission. I kept teasing Him that if He kept that up I would start cumming just from the sound of his voice. He tested that theory one day as we lay in bed after making love. His voice dropped to that deep Dom tone that I dare not disobey and he said…cum for me. My body did the rest.

    I will say that mind-gasms and cum on demand feel markedly different than clitoral or g-spot orgams (well all of them feel different don’t they?). They begin slowly for me almost as if they begin in my toes and slowly move up my whole body. My muscles tighten all over and my breathing gets shallow. The other difference is how long they last…several minutes.

    We are actually working on a stop command for this very reason. The last time He played with His toy in a restaurant, I came back around a couple of minutes later to see the man a couple of tables over staring at me. Sir said that I had turned the most delightful shade of red. We are also working on another favorite of His…squirting on demand.

    I find the orgasm control games a rewarding form of submission, what deeper gift can you give the man you love than the ultimate power over your pleasure. I will say that at one point I got a bit scared that I could not cum without Him, but we talked through it together. Ultimately, I decided that this was a gift that I wished to give Him as a token of my feelings for Him. But it is not a cheap one or one to be given to just anyone. You need to know that this person is worthy of such trust and would never abuse it.

    Email me if you have any other questions…I will say that from His perspective I think it is also a great stress reliever…a fun toy to play with after a bad day at the office. But then again if I can give Him that what more could I ask for.

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  5. My sub e had to move to Montana and I miss her terribly. We worked well together and I could call her at any time and say those three little words “cum for me” & she would! It was sometimes very embarrassing for her, because she was @ work. Her fellow co-workers who were our friends and knew us while, could always tell when I had made that call!

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  6. My Sir decided to try this on my but I’m extremely defiant. The only thing that works is cum-on-command and all my besties know about this… I’m scared their current boyfriends will di the same to them considering they are all very submissive people.. I don’t know how to ask my Sir to not tell the other boys about this as He is taking this thing to the next level! Using the cum-on-command call during classes and even around my parents… He’s always trying to touch me anywhere but I get defiant and scoot/walk away. So, anyone have any advice on either how to tell my Sir not to tell the boys for the safety of my friends or how I can be more submissive?

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  7. That is an insanely naughty moment to share, it is a pleasant one never the less. Perfect tease for me and my dom.. we love that private moment where he and I know what’s happening and no one else does. Time sort of slows down and its a romantic/naughty moment to share with the one you trust (ladies) or control (boys)

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  8. Oh yeah, DS you can interview me 😉 I’ll give you my email. My Dom trained me in the art of cum-on-command and I can achieve mindgasm. so comment back if you want to email me about it 😉 I’m happy to help

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