Sensual Kissing: The Key Predictor of Sexual Chemistry in Bed

“Every time you kiss me, kiss me like you’ll never see me again” ~ Alicia Keys from “Like You’ll Never See Me Again” (Album: As I Am)

Kissing is the most deeply intimate act we do as people. A great kiss is like dancing the tango with a sexy partner; it has moments of raw passion and other moments of soft sensuality. It is a sensual dance of lips, mouths and tongues that express deep emotions and cravings.

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With time and maturity, I have discovered that amazing sex has a firm foundation in the imagination and that our brains are our largest sex organs. I now find that I crave a woman who can inspire my most animalistic passions within me through a long, slow, sensual kiss… A sensual passionate kiss says that this woman is highly confident and has no issues expressing her sexual desires. Only a sensual, passionate and uninhibited person can kiss in a way that shoots sparks in your brain and makes you crave her all day long. A kiss can be an extremely honest explosion of pure emotions. Even the most shy person can express how they truly feel for someone in a kiss. Everything else follows so easily once the honest emotions are expressed and the sparks start to fly…

WARNING: 

  • Be extremely cautious of anyone who does not kiss you, refuses to kiss you, has excuses for not kissing you or has stopped kissing you. They are very likely trying to hide their true emotions from you… No one can hide their true emotions or the lack of those emotions in a kiss. Kissing you would expose their true emotions towards you.

I firmly believe sensual kissing is the most accurate indicator of sexual chemistry in the bedroom… In fact, I won’t date a bad kisser. Experience has shown me that it is a waste of time/effort – bad kissers are always terrible lovers (mechanical, lacking sensuality, lacking confidence)! That is not to say the first kiss is critical decision point because lots of people get nervous the first time they kiss. I am primarily referring to bad kissing as rabid tongues that are probing to reach your throat and mechanically cold kisses that lack any emotional charge, sensuality, etc.

A Simple Recipe for A Long & Happy Relationship:

My best friend has the greatest wife. They have a lovely daily tradition before he leaves for work, she would give him a 3-minute kiss as her way to say “I love you”, “Think about me” and “Hurry back soon”… As you can imagine, he did think about her a lot at work because a 3-minute kiss goes right through your whole body. They also had the complementary tradition when he gets home from work with another 3-minute kiss which says “I missed you so much’, “I am so glad you are home” and “I think you are wearing too many cloths”… As in all great traditions, the fun is in the repetition of the tradition… 😀

  • Have you discovered  that sensual kissers are great lovers and bad kissers are terrible lovers?

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~DominantSoul

10 comments on “Sensual Kissing: The Key Predictor of Sexual Chemistry in Bed

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  2. I heartily concur! I think it’s primarily do to chemistry and being excited by your partner but many people don’t know how to kiss. It really seems to be a lost art. I’ve been complimented on my kissing which really shocked me – I thought everyone would know how to kiss, if you’re really inspired at least.

  3. This describes me to a T. I humbly admit I am an amazing sensual kisser and always have positive feedback being accused more times than not of possessing ” Wicked Fuckable Lips”. Chemistry and Karma determine so much and a man who can kiss me bring waves of goose bumps r and making me simply melt into his being awakening a sexual passion at a primal depth. When that happens, the poor soul either knows he is in for one hell of a ride or has no clue the monster he has unleashed. I know without doubt we will have an awesome sexual relationship!

    I have followed you for a long time and when I meet someone worthy of my time and sexual energy, I direct them to your writings so they can get a brief glimpse into me as a sensual, sexual woman as the majority of your writings thump me right between the eyes.

    Thanks for taking the time to simply listen, pay attention and teach others how to do the same! Never stop!

  4. This has been absolutely true for me…and sadly I wish I had realized this over 20 years ago. A man who can match my intensity with a kiss is a man who will join me in making sparks fly in the bedroom- vanilla or otherwise. Obviously- the more dominant he is, the more intense it is for me- which has been an interesting thing to discover in the last 6 years or so!

  5. I’m new at this and currently exploring BDSM, and I have to say I enjoy reading and learning from your blog. 🙂

  6. Have always noticed this since I was a teen. The ones that know how to kiss are the ones to watch out for….the ones you pine for.

    I recently resisted an experience with a person who was insane with a fetish for a certain ability I have that will, ahem, soak an entire mattress….(which is super fun for me to be with someone who raises it to that level). But as luck would have it, that first kiss revealed meaty lips spread all over my face and a mechanical and forceful tongue circled around my mouth. Unbelievable. Had almost forgotten that there WERE people who kiss this badly over the age of 16 (thank god my screening abilities usually weed them out even before the actual kiss!). So poof! No more fetish for him ;( Felt a little bad, but seriously…just no.

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