Documenting BDSM Consent: The Jian Ghomeshi Case

Blowing her mind psychologically...As a Dom who has practiced consensual BDSM (rough sex, choking, spanking, bondage, anal sex, throat fucking, facials, forced orgasms) since my early twenty’s, the recent firing of Jian Ghomeshi, a nationally-renowned radio/tv host in Canada, from the CBC for practicing rough sex and BDSM, sent a chill down my spine. His private sex life got him fired, tainted his professional reputation and got him publicly outed…

I am neither saying Jian Ghomeshi is innocent of the accusations of non-consensual violent sex nor am I saying his female accusers are telling the truth. As an experienced Dom, I am merely saying that this serves as an excellent real-life case regarding the importance of a Dom/sub contract, especially with new or occasional play partners, for documenting BDSM consent and for documenting the scope of sex acts included in consensual BDSM play. This protects both parties involved:

  • It provides a clear and concise written record of what the boundaries/limits of consensual BDSM play are for both parties involved. This eliminate any misunderstandings and scary surprises during play to ensure everyone’s emotional and physical safety.
  • It ensures that neither party can accuse the other  party of misconduct or non-consent at some later date. It also ensures neither party can blackmail the other at a later date.

Something to think about… Play safely out there everyone…

~DominantSoul

Examples of a Dom Submissive Contracts:

Here are two different perspectives on the Jian Ghomeshi case:

 

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