There was a time when I used to think mirrors in the bedroom were kind of sleazy – like a cheap motel in Vegas. That was until I realized how deeply I craved constant eye contact with a partner. In a similar manner that dirty talk arouses my libido and my mind, eye contact with my partner also excites my animal passion.
Eye contact with a stranger can convey so many things; boldness/confidence, attraction, coyness, flirtyness or even “Come closer”… Many people cannot maintain eye contact because they lack confidence or they find it just too intense emotionally.
Eye contact with a partner can offer direct access to their mind and to their genitals. Over dinner, I like to silently stare intensely into the eyes of a women like a hungry wolf surveying his prey, knowing that my stare is making her eyes dilate, her nipples erect and her panties wet while making her squirm in her chair with unease. Knowing how to push the invisible buttons is most of the fun.
By maintaining eye contact with her alone and not noticing other beautiful women passing by in public conveys that you don’t desire other women and you deeply desire her alone. That is a very powerful emotional and sexual signal to most females.
As a couple, the silent signals we exchange through eye contact says so much about the strength of their connection as a couple even when apart – “It’s time to leave this party”, “Meet me in the powder room in 3 minutes”, “Come hither”, “Come fuck me”…
There is something deeply primal and deeply intimate about looking into the eyes of a partner during sex. It is like looking into their soul. That is a very powerful connection during a deeply intimate act. I want her to see how I am craving her and devouring her during the act of love making. I want to see every single facial expression as I devour her body. I want her to see my passion and desire for her. Most importantly, I want to be looking deep into her eyes at climax…
How does eye contact affect your libido?
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