Evil Dom Games: Layering Stimulation to Overwhelm a Sub

I like to overwhelm my sub with sexual pleasure. I have found intense pleasure (contrasting multiple orgasms with sudden pain) is a very powerful tool for domination. I create intense pleasure by starting with a very basic scenario then slowly layering on additional types of stimulation…

Anything you desire...

Anything you desire…

Game 1:

I often like start a session by grasping my sub by her throat gently with my left hand while she is in the doggie position on the bed. Most subs find a hand on their throat intensely arousing and an instant mental cue to submit. Alternatively, I may lie her over a pile of pillows on the bed with her ass high in the air then twist her hair into a ponytail, then pull her head back sharply by her ponytail. Pull her head back by her hair will put her instantly into “sub-mode” mindset as well.

I tell my sub to count out loud from 1 to 20. With each number spoken out loud, she receives a sudden harsh sting on her gorgeous ass by my cupped hand, hand in a spanking glove, leather belt or leather paddle. It is an erotic way to make her request her own punishment/training… It is very erotic and highly psychologically dominating…

I will also add a nipple clamps or nipples tweezers with bells, a wand vibe against her clit, ben wa balls inside her pussy(when inserted into thepussy during spanking theystrike the G-spot and can cause squirting during intense spankings) and then an anal vibe or butt plug into her ass to this scenario to slowly layer additional new dimensions of stimulation on top of the spanking. I add one of these new sources of sexual stimuation with each subsequent round of spanking.

Game 2:
The key to this erotic game is she MUST ASK PERMISSION TO CUM OR BE PUNISHED. I will insert two fingers into her pussy and begin to stroke her G-spot gently. Every time she gets close to cumming/squirting, she will ask me permission to cum which I will always deny her initially, forcing her to try not to cum or be punished severely for displeasing me. To make it even harder on her, I will stroke her pussy furiously AND place a wand vibe on her clit.

Every time she begins to cum without permission, she will receive a spank on her ass with a leather paddle as she is about to start cumming… then we repeat the process. The sharp pain of spank at the brink of cumming usually will prevent her from cumming but keep her right at the brink. This will allow you to keep her at a very high state of arousal, at the brink of cumming, for several hours.

Each time a sub is denied permission to cum, her physical state of arousal increases significantly. However, there is a limit which varies depending on the sub. Once sexual frustration begin to emerge, she is no longer enjoying being denied so you must understand when to stop denying and allow her to finally cum, usually somewhere between 3-10 denials. Observing and communicating with your sub is key.

This game ends when you give her permission to cum but you DON’T stop stroking her pussy as she cums the first time. The best time to give a woman an orgasm is immediately after she has cum. So, just keep stroking her pussy over and over and over and she will cum and cum and cum for you until you stop stroking her pussy. So keep going until you sense her losing complete control over her body. Then you have succeeded at overwhelming her sexually.

Game 3:
If I really want to melt her brain, I will then tie her hands above her head while standing up or bend her over the edge of the bed for a serious paddling/spanking with my leather paddle so her ass is bright red and hot to touch (FYI, paddling after several orgasms results in an extreme endorphin rush as the brain light up like a Christmas tree because the brain is already highly aroused from the multiple orgasms). Because she has already cum several times, the force and the time required to put her in “sub-space” from spanking (the euphoric state caused by endorphin rush) is quite minimal. You must be careful to monitor your sub because her legs can suddenly begin to shake uncontrollably then collapse. Be prepared to support her weight and quickly release her from the restraints before she suffers any injury.

Game 4:
To finish off a session, I will usually have very rough sex in the doggie position (hair pulling, ass slapping, throat hold) so she feels both intense pleasure of my hard cock literally devouring her super-sensitive pussy and the intense sting of pain from her well-paddled ass with each powerful thrust of my cock. This results in a very exhausted, overwhelmed, sweaty and limp sub…

I hope this give you all many naughty ideas to try at home… Relax, laugh together and have fun out there everyone….

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36 comments on “Evil Dom Games: Layering Stimulation to Overwhelm a Sub

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  2. My Dear Freind,
    I know this reply comes belated to the post date. I’m still playing “catch up” with my emails. I loved this post. I absolutely Love when he puts his hands on my throat.


  3. I printed this page out, rolled it like a scroll and wrapped it in my perfume covered panties and put it in a small black gift bag with a blind fold, vibrator wand, and bejeweled anal plug. Then gave it to my Dom while he was at work. Needless to say I had a mind blowing night when he got to his apartment after work lol. I think I have you to thank for that! 😉

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  6. In your experience can a sub control going into subspace mode? I have recently experienced this and it is an awesome state to be in. However I would like to be able to control to some extent if I go in or not. There are times I want to stay fully alert and experience the moment. I don’t seem to have that ability in fact it seems the more we interact the less control and the easier it is to get me there. I had never done this prior to the last couple of months. The frequency and intensity just escalate. It is so odd to me that I can slip away so easily. Any pointers?


    • In my experience, I have never gad a sub who controlled going in sub space. In general, I tend to overwhelm a submissive with sensory and sexual sensations to force her to lose control over of her body and mind.

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  7. My husband/Master has had this problem with me, controlling sub space. I am disabled, and deal with a lot of pain all the time. I’ve been in tune with my sexuality since I was very young. I have to concentrate on being able to let go, because if not, I stay too aware and can’t get there, no matter what he does.

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  9. I love your blog and learning as a new dom. I met a lover while on vacation and I found out by accident she loved rough sex and I am now engaged in learning about this new lifestyle. Your blog help this newby please his lover and for her to learn about her sexuality. Thank you, thank you thank you !!

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  10. This shit is for pups when ur sub has been thrown against th lounge room wall whit her head buried deep in th hole and fucked hard and fast in th ass while a proper chocking is effect come all over the throw down and told clean urself up its time to go out she hasn’t learned

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  11. Hey, I have a bit of a problem. Im into BDSM which is nice and all, I enjoy it alot and it makes me feel good, but I cant cum. Ive never been able to. Like ever in my entire life. What am I doing wrong?


  12. Thank you for an excellent read. I have carried out what you have written down. Our sessions have gone on to different levels now.
    We are both newbies so postings like these have really helped.
    Thank you

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  13. Honestly, that sounds really enjoyable. As i was reading my mind went back to a scene i had in October with a friend of mine which i’ve been doing scenes with him for about a year now and through that i’m learning i have a high pain tolerance but sometimes my anxiety gets in my way. i have mental health issues (then again who doesn’t now lol) but when he takes me to where i’m close to sub space everything feels so beautiful. i’ve also read your bloggings and advice for new/novice submissives on finding a dominant. I’ve definitely in the past have rushed without thinking and have put myself in not so nice situations from that but i’ve definitely learned from that. For the time being i just have myself as a bottom because i feel safer that way and i have a place i go to where it’s a safe environment. I have really good boundaries and i don’t break them for anyone. i like to get to know people before kink or any type of play. it might take me months before i actually play, etc. with anyone because i really care about safety and also yes having a connection matters whether you have a scene or enter a bdsm relationship.


  14. So I think I’m a submissive and I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years with a wonderful guy, he doesn’t like to role play and he doesn’t like to dominate me all the time, it’s rare when it happens and so I’m struggling to find ways to still get that fix yet I struggle to even masturbate anymore because I don’t have that dictation of what I can do. Which I’m turn I get frustrated and can’t finish. I also suffer from endometriosis which makes sex painful unless I’m very aroused but again he’s not big on foreplay. Any suggestions on what I can do? Thank you in advance!


    • First, you need to have a talk with your guy about your desires. Sex is important to feel happy, fulfilled and connected in a relationship. If he isn’t serious about fulfilling your desires, then you should discuss an open relationship where you get sexual fulfillment through someone else but maintain this emotional relationship.


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  16. I’ve desired such treatment for a long time. But it’s frustrating that I’m unable to teach my Dom new kinky fun. Time for a new man or woman! Or…perhaps I can visit you?

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