A Dom’s “Toolbox” of Kinky Pleasures

As in any art form, every good craftsman or craftswoman needs to good set of tools to make beautiful work. Here is a suggested list of BDSM tools of kinky pleasure for novice Doms/Dommes to consider base of their kinky interests:

A Craftsman Kinky Toolbox

Domination Tools:

Arousal Tools:

Breast Play Tools:

Anal Training Tools:

Impact Play Tools:

Public Domination Tools:
My goal during Public Domination Play is to push the sexual stimulation of a submissive to her very limits while she must maintain her composure in public. I like to stimulate all her erogenous zones at once to eventually overwhelm her.

This is by no means an exhaustive list of everything you could buy and you certainly don’t need everything on this list to start having fun. There are many things you could add or remove from this list, depending on your kinks or the kinks of your sub. Your focus should be on learning through experimenting, not on buying lots of BDSM gear…

I hope this helps. Enjoy and have fun out there…

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~DominantSoul

 

11 comments on “A Dom’s “Toolbox” of Kinky Pleasures

  1. Pingback: The Right BDSM Tools for the Job | DominantSoul

  2. How nice of you to prepare my Birthday and Holiday Wish List to give to my Dom. My Bucket List just got revised for public outings as well. Thank you!!

  3. A great list for the toy box, I noticed crops were left off the list, was that intentional? Crops are one of my favorite toys.
    My girl and I have talked about floggers and I am interested in trying one but have as of yet never used one.

    The Ben-wa balls we have tried and they do create quite a state of arousal but had some difficulty in removing them.

  4. Going over the list gave me a much better understanding of the items mentioned. As well as the pleasurable sensations my Dominant has in store for me. I appreciate all your writing. It is teaching me more about being the submissive my Dominant deserves and collared.

  5. Loved the heck out of your list and we have servile items from it on order. The thing we were wondering, is there any books or blogs you would recommend for us to read as beginners?

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