This is how I conduct an erotic Domination session. I am writing about this session to help novice Doms and subs understand how I structure a session and why I do specific things at specific time. I hope to inspire new erotic ideas for the readers in their play sessions. Let me know what you think of this kind of session:
- You are naked except for 5″ strappy high heels, black sheer stockings with garters and a black shelf bra which leaves your nipples fully exposed.
- You are blindfolded
- Nipple clamps attached to your breasts with the chain held in your mouth…
- Wrists tied together then secured to the far end of the dining table so you are bent over and drawn across the table.
- Ankles tied to the outsides of the legs of the table to keep your pussy gaping open
- I ask you to count from 1-20 out loud. With each number you say out loud, I smack your ass with a leather paddle. I make you count out loud so you are essentially asking for your own punishment. With each stroke you ask, “Please Sir, may I have another”. The paddling arouses every nerve in your body and fills your brain with endorphins. Now your body is super-sensitive to all types of stimuli – pleasure or pain…
- I will gently soothe your red ass flesh with soft caresses with a silk scarf wrapped around my hand and gentle kisses on your hot, pink ass. I am giving you a short mental and physical break before your next “training element”
- After you reach 20 paddles, your body is thrashing wildly at the slightest touch. I gently insert a thin vibe deep in your ass to arouse your G-spot, I hold a wand vibrator against your clit then begin to slowly fuck you from behind with a 10″ thick dildo. I grab a handful of your hair, twist it into a ponytail then pull your head back. I am attempting to overwhelm you by stimulating all your erogenous zones at once (nipples, ass, clit, G-spot, ass).
- However, there are rules to the game we are playing. You MUST ask me permission to cum! If you cum without permission, you will be severely punished for disobedience.
- Whenever you ask for permission, you must first pull up on the chain of the nipple chain when asking. I want you to intensify your own stimulation whenever asking to be allowed to cum.
- For the first few times (1-5) you ask permission to cum, I always say “NO” then proceed to fuck you furiously with the dildo and pull your head back by your hair, so you must strain physically and mentally not to cum with an overload of various simultaneous stimulation on all your erogenous zones (clit, G-spot, pussy, ass, nipples and hair).
- When I sense you are at the very brink of cumming, I suddenly stop fucking with the dildo and smack your ass really hard with the paddle – the sudden sharp shock of pain breaks your concentration and makes you gasp for air so you can’t cum but it also leaves you extremely aroused and still at the brink of cumming.
- I tell you to count to 1-20 for me once again…
- After 20 more paddles on your already sensitive ass, you are breathless, panting, quivering, thrashing and still highly aroused and excited from your rough dildo fucking
- We repeat this cycle of furious fucking followed by paddling for 3-5 cycles until you are absolutely begging for mercy…When I sense you are at your very limit, I re-insert the dildo into your pussy for the final time. This time when you ask permission to cum, I say “YES”…
- However, your body is now in a super-aroused and hyper-aroused state from being brought to the brink of cumming so many times during our play. This time I don’t stop fucking you with the dildo… And you just keep cumming and cumming and cumming and cumming and cumming…
- I won’t stop fucking your pussy until I see your legs begin to shake/spasm uncontrollably then they fail to be able to support you weight. As your body goes completely limp on the table, I know I have sucked every orgasm from your body and your mind as melted.
- I then untie you from the table and carry you to the bedroom. I bend you over the edge of the bed then excruciatingly slowly fuck your super-sensitive pussy. I ask you, “Who is my dirty little slut??” I am attempting to melt your mind. I will continue you to fuck your slow until your beg for my cumload. Then I grab your hips tightly and begin to fuck your furiously with my hard cock.
- Afterwards, I lay you on the bed, wipe your sweaty body and face with a warm damp cloth, brush your hair then massage and soothe your entire body with warm scented oil. I then hold you naked body close as I kiss you sensually to thank you deeply for your precious and rare gift of complete submission.
Does this scenario arouse/excite you? What aspects arouse you? Does this change you view on Domination?
If this article raises questions in your mind, please post a comment for me. I always look forward to discussing these ideas with like-minded people. Please feel free comment or “LIKE” or “SHARE” this article. If you want to stay informed of future writings, please subscribe to email notifications or Twitter updates.
~DominantSoul
Smiles…so very informative…and delicious.
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A great article, I have done much the same with my girl when we play. Bringing her to the edge then denying her, overloading her senses. I’ve picked up some good pointers in reading this and will put them into practice at our next session…the outcome should be explosive to say the least.
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love it. especially the why’s … it explains a lot! would love to be dominated in this manner
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Thank you for sharing this. I’ve reblogged it (I think I reblogged correctly) with some comments.
Kelly 🙂
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I must say, that all sounds deliciously arousing and exciting. I particularly like the way you treat your sub afterwards with the massaging, brushing and the kissing to say thank you. Thank you for that insight into your world I loved this post.
KS 🙂
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KS,
I wanted women to understand that pain in kink is not related to a need to injure but by sexual desire. It takes a woman who craves to spanked to understand a man who craves to spank… Sharing that is a very intimate act of trust and love… Aftercare is where the emotional bond is re-establish and trust/intimacy is built…
~DominantSoul
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Well you certainly helped to do just that for me, many thanks again for your insightful information.
KS.
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Well… Feel free to share my article with all your friends…
DS
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Well… Feel free to share my article with all your friends…
DS
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Absolutely Delicious, and this comes from a Dominate Female. That is finding she may just have a “sub” inside that would “cum” out with the right play : )
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AYYYYYYYYYYY Puns
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Seriously need the husband to do this to me….
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Give him the article over Valentines dinner to read.
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That’s a thought
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yeS, yES, YES!…..(:
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Regina, I am glad you approve. I hope I don’t put too many naughty ideas in your mind on this Holy Easter…. Hehehe
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This honestly makes me curious about Domination/Submission and what else that can be done
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I am always happy to seduce a new innocent to the “Dark Side” with the promise of mind-blowing multiple orgasms. Welcome… 😉
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Now now sir its not nice to tease ;)…..unless of course it leads to other things…but seriously thank you for your blogs their very informative for an innocent like myself
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This truly states what submission can bring to the submitter. I feel so selfish at times when I feel I slip into sub space. that i’m too wanton. But in the end Sir always says it’s fine, I like you deep there in your wanton sub space. So for those that don’t get this lifestyle…they are not getting the above described, because how could you not based on the above scenario, hmmmmm. Thank you for your website and writings- you inspire me and I share with Sir…
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This is exactly what I’m looking for. So glad that I found your blog. Just putting it out to the universe, that this is the kind of Dom I want. Thank you.
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Look on Match.com… It is where my submissive found me…
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Online dating doesn’t work for me sadly. I’ve tried it lots. I don’t get the responses etc. But it’s okay. It’s out there in the universe. My Dom will come.
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I think my french lover read this post before dominant session. It was absolutely delicious, most passionate moment was when he ask me count in voice every blow by my ass. Enjoying pain, scream from pleasure and pain, it was good lessons for me and i looking forward next session of pain and pleasure.
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This is also the kind of experience I am looking for. I’m just starting my sexual journey but what you describe is describing so much of what I’m looking for. And I have to say you are incredibly eloquent … Your writing alone arouses me and makes me yearn to find my kindred spirit!
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Come visit me in Canada. ; -)
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Mm mm ! Such a sexy mood involved… My vivid imagination coupled with these writings make me hot and wanting my dom ❤
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GOOD GOD! Rawer =3 I think I’ve found what my craving is! I’ve always wanted to be controlled sexually! Never knew I was normal Haha! Guess I’ve been taken over to the Dark Side! 😉 Thanks DS
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I can’t stop reading all of your informative info. I’m new to this world of sexual exploration. You have a true gift and passion for Dom/sub play . As I’m reading I’m cought off guard by the physical sensations that go through my body as you describe what you put your sub through. I’m exited to deverginise my mind and open myself up to a new journey in sex. Hope I can find a Dom that has the compasity to adore and respect me as you do your sub. You feel safe…. Thank you .
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You are most welcome… DS
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OK. I wasn’t absolutely sure, but my physical response to the above has convinced me… I am a sub! I still haven’t caught my breath. Oh my, oh my, oh my…
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I have been introduce to the dark side by a sub that I was dating. I myself have been looking for Dom that I can follow. I am excited with this session. I would love to experience this session with her. So thank you for you blog. I can’t wait to read the others. This whole site is very good with alot of information and I appreciate it.
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Here’s my question. How do you keep the sub from zoning out or diassociating?
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This post is absolute bliss to read…still searching for that perfect Dom…
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You would love it… Trust me… Ds
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finding one like you is not easy …….i know …….i’ve tried and tried and tried and tried
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Have you considered moving to Canada? 😉
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Read this..
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Ha that sure is an interesting scenario..
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Glad you enjoyed…
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